Well, actually speaking, you can call this an observation rather than a perception. Though all the perceptions are based on our observations, I don’t want to make anything underlined.
So talking about guys, as in males in general, there are types of them. There are types of them in themselves too, types as in phases or parts. When we say every individual is different we mean their thoughts and mind sets differ but even with this they orbit around certain presets!
Ok. So, to start with, you love to take people for granted. Everything is cool until things go according to your wish and will, but as soon as the tables turn there is something inside you which starts hurting. Call it your ego or just let it be “something”. You always like things to go according to you. You call it a safe play. You stay in your own cocoon. Your paradise! When things change you get insecure. But even with all this you have something called as a Happy-go-lucky and out-going nature. You don’t have the habit of clinging on to things (except for your girlfriend’s or wife’s faults :P ). You take one thing at a time. For instance, if you are watching a match you can think of nothing else! :P Well jokes apart, while doing something in particular, you don’t even think about other things. But, you don’t talk what you think and don’t think what you talk. You never speak your heart. Sometimes pouring your heart out does help. And for god sake crying is NOT girly! Please get this fixed in your mind. It really needs guts to cry!
One thing I don’t understand about you is why on earth are you so very eager or desperate to find a partner? Either as a general non-bonded relation or a serious long-term relation, you always need that special someone. Not that you share everything with that person. Also, even if things are kept in front of you, you still don’t seem to see them! What’s with the pretending? Or are you really that dumb? Dating is your favorite hobby, sex on the top of your to-do list. You love to do everything which is wacky and adventurous. You are always ready to try new things though sometimes with a crooked nose but you do it, also sometimes because you have to save your image and pride. It’s very rare that you take things on yourself. You are a very lazy species.
Things which make you happy include the things you like to do the most. For instance playing sports or watching them, hanging out or drinking with your gang, cars or bikes or vehicles in all, electronics, technology, etc. you love your inside guy things and jokes. You have your own ways to look at things. You love competition.
You don’t like people cribbing about things and hammering you with things every now and then.
People say it’s very difficult to understand a woman. I say it’s untrue. Understanding guys is the tougher one. It is tough because they don’t let you understand them. They don’t speak out.
I had once read something somewhere, it goes this way
“If the world comprised of all men there would be world wars, and if the world comprised off all women, there would be countries just jealous and not talking to each other.”
PS – I know you have many objections and arguments on this but this is just in general I have pointed. Read my first statement again.
Cheers to you, cheers to lyf…!
