Life Linez...

Everyone of us has a different definition about our lives. But the steps we take while living this life are always being trodden upon at least once by someone else. My definition for life could be judged by this blog. I never wrote anything about me or related to me here. But everything I write is a part of me, part of what I feel and think. These are few lines which all of us go through with the game of Life. Something with the essence of this blog I write. Something which in a way defines this blog and my life as well. Hope you guys like it as always. So here I go with the Life Linez…

P.S: Dont judge the second last line. Its just a rhyme and part of life not the specific thing you think it is. :P

Climbing up or falling down
Wiping tears or sniffing sounds
Laughing hard or throw a frown
All this just in one countdown

Hoping high or holding low
Feeling high or feeling low
Stretch the neck or show a bow
But you always remain a fellow

People come and people go
Watching all your petty shows
Smart you think and smart you show
But then realize you were foolish though

Raise your tongue and raise your mouth
And here, get replied by a shout
Try a glimpse and just look out
Breaking news! "Silence is what it's al about"

Moving in or moving on
Tying knots or breaking bonds
Just twilight or breaking dawn
Be it anyway, life just goes on...

Cheers to you, cheers to lyf...!

Making the right choice...

A new thing is beginning to worry me nowadays. Not that it’s a new thing but it definitely leads to huge problems within people. I’m talking about career selection to be precise.
People choose something, and keep on doing it even though they don’t ace it. Even though the option they choose doesn’t make them happy they don’t plan on to look for something else but keep rubbing their ass on the damn thing which will, in near future, pay them almost nothing.

We all come to face unwanted troubles on all walks of life. Every big decision is interlinked with big pressure. The final call depends upon the individual’s strength of will. If the person is ready to take the risk and force his way out to his needs and satisfaction he is definitely fit for the world. But what about those who think they can’t?

Why are we so paranoid about ourselves, our future? Life is a game. You have everything to lose, but you literally don’t lose anything! And damn that’s a fact! You really got to believe in yourself so as to prove yourself right and work things out for yourself. Popping problems behind your back doesn’t really solve them. They don’t vanish that way. To get rid of them you ought to turn back, face them and then, and only then will they stop following you.

In olden days there used to be very little options to think about and opt for. But here we are in the 21st century where we are open to everything. If one road is blocked there are different paths we can take to reach our destination. Or for that matter we can change our destination as well! It’s nothing like a big deal now! There is no age to learn anything new. Looking into career point of view there are ample of things and fields which does need man power. Everything you point out to has scope in it. But if you keep on going the way you are it can give worse impacts which you really can never even think of. You might tend to lose faith in yourself, your social life can be affected and your psychological state might dwindle. One wrong decision or one hesitation for that push and your house of cards can lose its balance. You need to make up your mind about the importance of your own life in your own eyes.
If there is one thing that you have chosen and it no longer interests you, at any point of life you can think of another option. You just need to have the zeal. It might happen that the next option you choose takes you to great heights and you may ace it.

No work is big or small. Anything and everything is possible. Trust yourself. It’s your life you are playing with so you better be careful or it may take you to rubbles. Others are not going to come for your aid if you slip n fall in pit. It’s only you! You fall, you get up and you start walking again. Come alone go alone. One decision and your life may change. It is you who has to decide whether to give up with pressures around or look for that far-fetched success which will give meaning to your life and you yourself!

Cheers to you, cheers to lyf…!

Help yourself..

Problems are one thing which anyone and everyone faces all their life long. Problems can be related to anything. Just anything! A 3 year old is hungry and his mom is not around to feed him that could be his problem. Every teenage girl has a heart-break problem, not literally though. A newly graduated fresher has a job problem; a working person can have an increment or a promotion problem. A 50 year old may have retirement problems. Name them and they are there.
You also need to understand that no problem is big or small. Every problem has its importance according to its situation, a person’s age or gender, etc. so you can’t just neglect any issue which anyone is facing.

Have you ever wondered why we seem to have problems?
When we sense things are falling apart, we try to gather as much, as quickly as possible. But we do that only when we sense they are falling apart. Why do you think we realise our errors or wrong doings at the end of everything? Can it really be justified coherently?

Frankly I would say, or rather I don’t even need to say this, we know there is no point sulking on things after they have passed and have, like, Gone With The Wind. We always say better late than never. But have we ever reconsidered if it really helps? We can work on things when we have them in our hand. But once they start slipping away, no one can do anything. A glass once broken can never be joined again because even though we stick the broken parts it always shows the faded broken lines. It can never be used as it was before.

We say past is past, but our past makes us think in our present and improve our future. But how much ever true this might be, there comes a point when we have to let things go and understand that we do have a life left after all. It’s upon us to decide which thing affects how much to us. We can’t just keep drowning in the memories and effect of the so called past.
If you need help sorting your problems with your past, you need to talk. Rather not just past, any problem that you face isn’t going to be solved unless you talk it out. And instead of talking here and there, just open up to the concerned person. If nothing you’ll be satisfied that you at least gave it a try. Even seeing a shrink is one of the options.

My first question to you is do you think seeing a shrink (a psychiatrist) means you are MAD? If yes, then you definitely need to enlighten yourself. A shrink isn’t someone who will take your clothes off and give you electric shocks nor will he/she take you to a corner and redden your bum by beating you up with a baseball bat or something like that. Or if you think your friends or family will start maintaining distance from you just because you are seeing a shrink then that is their problem and not yours.
A shrink can only help you help yourself by helping you find out what your problems are, so that you can take care of them and sort your so called messed up life!

Anyways, that’s not what we are looking at right now, so, talking about problems, you really need to take a chill pill, RELAX, take time off for your own self to ponder upon things a little, take help if necessary and take the needed decision ASAP. ASAP because life waits for none, so you do need to move on and look forward to much bigger troubles and be ready for them. Follow this and you’ll feel life was Never Better!

Cheers to you, cheers to lyf…!