the girl thing...

Well m starting with something which is considered the toughest thing on earth, trying to decrypt a girl. Being a girl I myself have never really understood what a girl really wants! I doubt if they know what they actually want.
“The Fools” as they are called, they are the smartest! Sad that even they them self don’t realize this. A girl or a woman is the heart of everything. Without them nothing would take place. They are considered the most emotional of the species, the most sensitive and nostalgic ones. Well, the reason for all this is their inbuilt hormonal metabolism. They can’t help it either.
They have certain pattern in which they think and don’t know why every girl has the same set of rules for each and every thing. They confuse themselves with everything they do. They are highly expressive. They don’t need reasons to cry. They can start off at literally anything! PINK is their favorite color. They love chocolates, soft toys, and the word CUTE. Their smile can make you lose your senses!
Every girl dreams of her Prince Charming since birth! Most of the girls have an “ambition” in life to marry her prince charming. Whatever they do revolves and rotates around only one thing, love! I don’t really know how many of them understand what love is. They always want their guys talking about them and them only. If they say one good thing about any other girl may it even be her own best friend the fight starts! Comparison is a must in everything for these sweeties. They let themselves to be taken for granted by their men. They easily fall for words of care and concern. They open up to anyone who is ready to listen. But if anything goes wrong with the people whom they care for, say a best friend or a loved one then may god save the person who meant harm!
They have an irritating habit of biting the ears off with their continuous chatter. They just can’t keep shut. May it is a woman of any age, chatting has to be the favorite hobby!

Creativity is inbuilt too. They have a great sense of fashion and art. They know what looks good. Some don’t but they are quick learners in these fields. They have their own way of interpreting things. They know to search for signs for what they are looking forward to.
They have great managing skills too. They have time for everything including studying, playing with their dolls, dolling up themselves, and learning things from their mommies, to taking care of kitchen, managing their jobs and kids and husbands and everything. No doubt they are always confused!
One thing they don’t understand is how they put someone in soup by their own behavior. They are no way decisive! They always depend upon someone to take decisions for them. They just slog like donkeys and let the world do the thinking for them. No doubt they are used as show pieces in many places. Frankly speaking they know very well how to get work done but they don’t actually try things. Scared that they always are, always in a dilemma. But that doesn’t mean every girl is the same. Many girls now have understood their own power and have started using it. They know that they can live independently and don’t need to live like parasites and let themselves be ruled!
Sex is something they barely think of. They take 3 weeks to know if the guy they are with is good for them. (For a better reference please read “why men want sex and women need love by Barbara and Allan Pease”) I had read something which goes this way, “if you really want to spread news, tell it to a woman.”
They either have the tendency to give up anything and everything or grab everything them get or moreover don’t get. Today’s woman says they are no less than any man, which is because they are trying to free themselves from the way they are portrayed. They do fall on face sometimes but most of the times they stand firm and raise high. They will never take offence.
If they be bold they can make a whole male group face down with shame. The only good thing I can say about a woman is that, never ever underestimate them. You never know what they are capable of. If it comes to dare, girls dare more than guys do! They have more inner strength. If they can keep a child within themselves for 9 months and still do work and carry on their routine, if they can carry a child on their back in a war, you never know what else they can do, nor do they know! ;)
Ohk now enough I guess. All this girl talk is making my head spin again. I guess I’ll end it here before I start getting confused!
“God made earth and then he rested. After a while god made man, and he rested again. Then finally god made woman. Since then, neither man nor God has ever been to rest!”
Cheers to you, cheers to life…!