Mom and dad! What do you understand from these words; friends, parents, just some human around you? Rather do we even consider them humans? Rather have you ever wondered or taken in consideration the feelings or emotions or even presence of another human being in front of all the so called priorities of yours? We people are so ungrateful of someone’s deeds. The best word here is “Ehsaan Faramosh”! Really! We really need to check our behaviours.
Just think about that favourite thing of yours which is so dear to you. Or those who have pets in their house just think about them. You feed them caress them, take good care of them grow them very fondly, take them out for strolls n all. Everything is just fine and happy! And one fine day they just do not eat from your hand or refuse to go out with you or may be if it’s a dog, barks at you if you go near. What would you think? How would you react? Throw them out of the house? That’s what our parents should do when we behave so then, don’t you think?
Come on people. Get real! Every person like you has some feelings and emotions just like you. Realise this! Every time when we are not in mood we feel there should be someone who can make us feel good. And when we turn around, ta da! Here they stand like angels with a smiling face just to make us smile. In spite of all the messes around their heads or no matter what kinds of problems they might be facing. But without even giving you a hint they star on the stage! And what we give them? We think we know everything and say what ever comes in our mind, behave as we wish. But even then their love for us doesn’t decrease.
Some parents just don’t show that they love. But they do. You can only see that they shout at you but turn blind to see what all they do for you. Your clothes, your food, even your moods! They manage everything! The mothers are always in the kitchen when you need them. No matter what happens dads are always ready to fight for our living. They also change places and responsibilities sometimes. But they see to it that everything you need is just at an arms reach. They shout for nothing but our own good. What do they get if we score well or earn well? It’s for our benefit! They want us to be happy and settle down with a better, no , the best living that is possible!
Now some may have problem agreeing with this also. So for them…my dear darlings you at least have a shelter on your heads! Money for your educations! What else you want? So what if they behave distant with you? Their intention doesn’t change. Instead of wasting time fighting or disagreeing with them save this energy and be someone. You have been getting what you need always. So where do you see nooks in here man? Everything or everyone isn’t perfect. Or rather nothing is perfect. It won’t kill you if you make someone happy a bit! You have your whole life to live according to your will after they grow old. But for some while just try to have a share in their works, a smile in their smiles, as they do for you. You won’t be able to do as much they do, don’t even think of that! But a little won’t be a problem, will it?
Common just once without making faces or saying no just do what they say and I am sure they will never forget this in their life! We all need love.
Some lines I would like to dedicate to my Ma n Dadda and also to all your parents from your sides because I know how foolish you people are. This is a song by Miley Cyrus. Here it goes…
You tucked me in, turned out the light
Kept me safe and sound at night
Little girls depend on things like that
Brushed my teeth and combed my hair
Had to drive me everywhere
You were always there when I looked back
You had to do it all alone
Make a living, make a home
Must have been as hard as it could be
And when I couldn't sleep at night
Scared things wouldn't turn out right
You would hold my hand and sing to me
“Caterpillar in the tree
How you wonder who you'll be
Can't go far but you can always dream
Wish you may and wish you might
Don't you worry, hold on tight
I promise you there will come a day
Butterfly fly away”
Love to all those hands who bruised themselves in taking pains while growing you or rather i should say US. Hope you understand some day and love them to.
Cheers to you, cheers to life…!
