Situations do not come by informing you. Everything's always gonna be a surprise. For everyone, the questions life asks are the same. The only difference being the approach of the person. We usually panic when we don't see our usual old routine. But on the other hand we also tend to crave for a change and novelty. Many of us hate a monotonous life. If that's so, why fear what you asked for?
We are all tested by life all the time in it's unique own way. Unique for us, but it seems to have a particular code to follow, just like all of us. There are bounds which we prefer not to cross. Also, living in a society we need to follow some rules too. We are expected to be "social". Which, if properly considered, means making others around us happy. If our behavior, our response, our approach and other parameters of being are good or up to people's expectations, we are considered good. If we fail to put up to it, we become the rude ones who are arrogant all the time. You are named, blamed, pointed out or even left out. If you belong to the sensitive types, well, god save you then. The weakest is always targeted in our so called society. As I always say, you live for yourself so if all these things affect you they shouldn't cuz in the end nothing matters. You need to tread your own path and follow your own journey. This society is something which makes simple things difficult for you.
You may argue that we must do our bit and let their Karma decide for them as we are answerable to God and no one else. Why didn't we think of the same while deciding for Kasab? Because then, we were the society. I totally accept the fact that we are solely answerable to God and no other being, but to survive and live you need to love only your own self.
There is nothing bad in being good to people but this if affects you, you need to review your steps. A human soul is pretty sensitive towards things. It gets affected by almost everything. But we can close these hyping doors and treat them well to make them behave. To get them under our own control nay than being under the control and direct effect of someone or some group who show all the signs of abandoning you in the time of need.
Play your part in the game, but play it in a way which makes your life better. Just need to keep one thing in mind that while playing your part, see to it that others' lives are not wrongly affected or may be some good is done too. This way you serve the purpose of right existence. No harm done, you feel good because you are good to people and your life is heading perfect too.
So everything seems happy, eh? What about the situations when the "others" are your own? Come on, life cannot be so straight and simple. Your close ones are the ones to hold maximum chances of ditching you and giving you the trouble time of your life. Why? Because they are the ones whose behavior, approach, and being affects you the most. And trust me you cannot blame them. In fact, you cannot blame anybody. Even if they are your own, move on. Change your course and move in the direction of the wind before the next tide strikes.
Wreckage is an important phase of life, any life. Everything good blooms only when there is nothing existing. Learn to accept that nothing can always be good and carry on your role. Not life but you will serve yourself with good.
Cheers to you, cheers to lyf...!
