lessons and credits...

A person, a thing, surroundings, everything around us forms us. At least 1 thing in our life has such a great impact on us that we change. It can also mean a complete 180° turn. Our life can be upside down just because of someone or something. It can be anyone; say our parents, friends, an acquaintance or even a passer by. That situation slaps us so hard that it shudders everything, from our concepts to our mindset, everything!

We wonder what made us think the way we were thinking till then. We learn these lessons all our lives and even though we forgive we don’t forget. And why should we? There’s no use if we forget the reason for our change! That reason is the base for everything. It keeps us going. But the most important thing is that we should know is where to sulk and where to move on. Life doesn’t wait for anyone. We have to keep us going and achieve what we were meant to. Life gives us these lessons all our life. But we should face it with a smile. Remember even death doesn’t come to your way easily if you are not scared of it.

Talking about people and lessons, have you ever thought of giving someone their credits? Like if you like something or have a something in life because of someone, have you ever gone to the person and said simple thanks? Or if you think you did something wrong with someone or with something, have you ever been to d person n said sorry or apologized any how any way? If you participated in something and couldn’t win did you ever go to the winner and say congratulations or at least accepted that you did not deserve enough or have you always made excuses about your failure?
Think about this.

Put up what you feel about this below. I am waiting for inputs from your side. Common people lets see what you guys have to say on this.
Cheers to you, cheers to lyf…

Basic v/s change…

 

We have some basics since our childhood. We change. Make many changes within us, also around us. Improved or just with the flow. But our basics never change. We need to balance them with the new being within us. Its difficult. Really. But have to. To keep our self rooted we always need to be firm. There always should be a dialogue between you n your inner you. Change isn’t bad but we should never forget what we were..for 2 reasons..:

1. It keeps us down and helps us blend with the reality and also understand it.

2. Most important….its the reason for our change!

 

We are supposed to polish this bond that they share and eventually handling life becomes easy. If this bond isn’t strong, we lose it all and that’s how we behave weird and end up in a mess.

Its important to analyse. Sometimes getting away from things makes you understand the value of the others. May it be the thing which has changed or may be the older things in you which you couldn’t see or value when attracted or influenced by other new ones.

The most important thing in life is nothing but understanding ourselves. If we know ourselves we can crack anything and everything!

cheers to lyf…cheers 2 you…!

A small gratitude for our life makers...

Mom and dad! What do you understand from these words; friends, parents, just some human around you? Rather do we even consider them humans? Rather have you ever wondered or taken in consideration the feelings or emotions or even presence of another human being in front of all the so called priorities of yours? We people are so ungrateful of someone’s deeds. The best word here is “Ehsaan Faramosh”! Really! We really need to check our behaviours.
Just think about that favourite thing of yours which is so dear to you. Or those who have pets in their house just think about them. You feed them caress them, take good care of them grow them very fondly, take them out for strolls n all. Everything is just fine and happy! And one fine day they just do not eat from your hand or refuse to go out with you or may be if it’s a dog, barks at you if you go near. What would you think? How would you react? Throw them out of the house? That’s what our parents should do when we behave so then, don’t you think?
Come on people. Get real! Every person like you has some feelings and emotions just like you. Realise this! Every time when we are not in mood we feel there should be someone who can make us feel good. And when we turn around, ta da! Here they stand like angels with a smiling face just to make us smile. In spite of all the messes around their heads or no matter what kinds of problems they might be facing. But without even giving you a hint they star on the stage! And what we give them? We think we know everything and say what ever comes in our mind, behave as we wish. But even then their love for us doesn’t decrease.
Some parents just don’t show that they love. But they do. You can only see that they shout at you but turn blind to see what all they do for you. Your clothes, your food, even your moods! They manage everything! The mothers are always in the kitchen when you need them. No matter what happens dads are always ready to fight for our living. They also change places and responsibilities sometimes. But they see to it that everything you need is just at an arms reach. They shout for nothing but our own good. What do they get if we score well or earn well? It’s for our benefit! They want us to be happy and settle down with a better, no , the best living that is possible!
Now some may have problem agreeing with this also. So for them…my dear darlings you at least have a shelter on your heads! Money for your educations! What else you want? So what if they behave distant with you? Their intention doesn’t change. Instead of wasting time fighting or disagreeing with them save this energy and be someone. You have been getting what you need always. So where do you see nooks in here man? Everything or everyone isn’t perfect. Or rather nothing is perfect. It won’t kill you if you make someone happy a bit! You have your whole life to live according to your will after they grow old. But for some while just try to have a share in their works, a smile in their smiles, as they do for you. You won’t be able to do as much they do, don’t even think of that! But a little won’t be a problem, will it?
Common just once without making faces or saying no just do what they say and I am sure they will never forget this in their life! We all need love.

Some lines I would like to dedicate to my Ma n Dadda and also to all your parents from your sides because I know how foolish you people are. This is a song by Miley Cyrus. Here it goes…

You tucked me in, turned out the light
Kept me safe and sound at night
Little girls depend on things like that
Brushed my teeth and combed my hair
Had to drive me everywhere
You were always there when I looked back
You had to do it all alone
Make a living, make a home
Must have been as hard as it could be

And when I couldn't sleep at night
Scared things wouldn't turn out right
You would hold my hand and sing to me

“Caterpillar in the tree
How you wonder who you'll be
Can't go far but you can always dream
Wish you may and wish you might
Don't you worry, hold on tight
I promise you there will come a day
Butterfly fly away”

Love to all those hands who bruised themselves in taking pains while growing you or rather i should say US. Hope you understand some day and love them to.

Cheers to you, cheers to life…!

TRUST...

alone you come alone you go
there is always help at a time
but for sumtime you are alone sumwhere
especially at a prime time
everyone shows a trust at first
taking big vows
but when the time comes, no1 even hinders around
no1 to ask even in need
we go mad at ourselvs when
we find ourselves so
find trusting sum1 so badly
but people just go off making a crap out of us
never to rely never to suppose do what you can do of urself without expecting
anyone to be there
all is fake atlast only one thing remains
that is you and only you
no one cares if you stay
no one cares if you die
searching for ones happiness
everyone just goes on thinking
nothing but me myself
when you think you trust sum1
just look out there is a big trouble
people dont trust you
especially when you actually need them
your words dont count
your life worthless
if anything matters its always
how one lives for oneself
frustration engulfing you, you move on
without any strength for anything
without aiming for anything
waiting for your time to come
waiting till the last minute...!



Trust is the most sensitive part of our lives. Whoever comes in our life smiles a bit shares a bit, makes us laugh, we tend to trust them. Then finally when they break it we easily blame it on them and back out of our responsibility. Whatever happened also has a bit of our fault in it too. It’s not every time that others are wrong. We can b wrong too. Our fault is that we trust them at the first place. We can’t trust someone just on the first meet. We need to know someone to predict his or her behaviour. So next time you tend to trust someone at the first instance, think twice, take your time analyze and see if the person is worth it!

cheers to lyf...cheers to you!

Behaviour...

Normally what and how we behave has an important impact on our life. Its our behaviour and attitude toward things that makes things work in life. Proper distance has to be maintained where necessary and also a proper way has to be given to things which need space and time.
We blame others or fate for the things which happen in our life. But do we really ever check our behaviour? If you face some trouble that is just because of you and no one else is responsible. May be they play a small part like a step but that leads to trouble in your life. So, to ensure that you don’t have problems in your life you have to keep track of your own behaviour.

Cheers to lyf…cheers to you…!

life in a metro...

Beautiful rains, green grass, rain washed muddy roads, the fragrance of the earth...

What! Hello! Come out of it now! It’s no use thinking about all this! Why? Because it’s not far that you won’t be able to see any of it. All this urbanization! It’s going to kill all the fun of the rural life. Even the rural people think its worthless living in a village. But, what’s wrong if they think so. They have no facilities! No electricity, no food. Nothing! Nothing at all! And our government also doesn’t bother.
These people don’t realize what valued treasure they are wasting. Everywhere concrete jungles, fancy restaurants and huge shopping malls! That’s what we see and want nowadays…Lying down under a night full of stars in the light of the beautiful moon cannot be enjoyed in a polluted suffocating city. It can only be done in a beautiful full of energy and highly oxygenated atmosphere and that can only be found in our darling rural areas…
I remember I had recently been to Malshej Ghat. I had fallen down from stairs some 2-3 weeks before n was suffering from back ache. The falls in the ghat were just miraculously beautiful. Miraculous for this reason that after bathing in the force of that water my back ache reduced like anything! And I was back with more energy n enthusiasm…thanks to the mind-blowing climate, the rain, the mist, and the cold. Rather everything about these places is so pleasant that you just can’t keep being happy! One more thing is that the cold climate at these places is also good for health; you feel healthy!

But, sadly all these places are facing commercialization. All the nature the beauty the greenery is getting replaced by concrete! This all is the fault of our urbanised people. We just don’t want to adjust. Here also we keep on thinking about the precautions and what not! Come on people…just let go yourselves. There are people around you who are drinking the same water, eating the same food around you and they are definitely at better health than you are. They don’t drink the chlorinated and contaminated water that you drink, they drink water in its pure form eat food in its pure form they live a very much healthy life all their life.

Just for once try being at such a place. May be your native or some rural part of your state. Not my native. It’s Goa! And I guess you understood by the name itself. But still in south Goa you can find this beauty too. So the next time you go to some rural place forget all your problems and let them share their…n I am sure…they would definitely be more grave than your! Make them feel you are one of them. For a change keep your egos aside and LIVE. Try being at home. Because this is OUR HOME!

Cheers to lyf…cheers to you!

Its different...life from childhood to teens n then ahead…its really different. Things r different, ppl r different, places r different, surroundings also differ... Its not always that we get whatever we ask for. But we shud never 4get wat we were. Coz tht wud help us to understand wat we are n why! How much ever we say “past is past” but tht is the only thing which helps us reach near our future o say our destiny. Life is full of ups n downs but after every fall wat counts is our rise! Its very imp how v raise ourselves up…

Cheers 2 lyf…cheers 2 u...

starting with

Sumtimes we find ourselves running alone in a race
Sumtimes completely blank between the paces
Unseeing what we can see easily
Still sumtimes pretending just not to see
Sumtimes we wish to do sumthin
But end up doin sumthing else
Sumtimes everything is just a striaght line
But sumtimes its a but haywire
When thought on, realise its not actully confusing
But we make it so
Rather we are confused between
Our wish list and expectations and expectants also
Peoplecome and go just like time who doesnt wait
The journey is not easy its quite hard to judge
Pressure is constant irrespective of situation
Its completely upto us just where exactly to budge
Alone we come n so do we go
Help and support is sure to get in this game
But minding well its just a help for the time being
We end up by reaching the finish line and get rewarded with a grave...!

thats a smal poem which i thot to put...jus 2 start in with...