You think you don’t know all this? Oh yes you do! But the problem somehow is in acceptance. May be there is another story for this then. May be you just like being sad. Yes now you’ll argue by saying “You are insane, who likes to be sad?” and all. But trust me there can be something going on deep down inside you, which makes you linger on the negative more than the positive bit. When you are sad you feel left out and probably that’s the reason you wish to have people around you. You keep distancing yourself but might want them to stay on longer just so that you know who actually cares. This happens more with females, though I don’t deny guys behaving so too. No, that isn’t gay! Guys have feelings too and I find no reason for them to behave any different from what they feel. This is where it comes. Acceptance! If you feel sad, be it! There is no need to run away from the feeling. Cry as much as you wish to. Analyze things, sort them out with yourself first, wipe your tears and you are good to go. Sort your problems out with the concerned person, I repeat, concerned person only! If things work out well and good, if not, move on. Scrap everything off and make a new start. By a new start I literally mean a new start. There is no point thinking on those lines again and again. Things go as they come. Just let it go.
Once you get over that situation make sure you do not look back. You might wish to cry thinking about everything again. But then think of those few people to whom you matter and who are affected when they see tears in your eyes or see you upset. They make you strong. Hold their hand and get up again. Life always gives you a second chance. It is always between you and life. No one else has a say in between. The sooner you realize this the better it is. You choose your path, you make your destiny. Being upset or woeful never helps. You need to rise and shine like the morning sun. Yes you have to, because, there is no point. Time will not pause or cease its pace for you, nor will people stop living their own lives. Come on you can’t blame them. They have their own destinations to reach. So simple; you concentrate on yours and attain that. Think about all the things that happened in your life till now.
Think about everything you have been through till date. Has anything changed? Yes. Everything has. Except the fact that you are living and you will die when your part is played. In all the phases of life there came so many things, so many people. None or some of them have stuck to you even now. Everything has an end and so does life. Why waste it cribbing than living every moment of it blissfully? Time is ticking. Step with it and sync in before you lose the beat and trip over the track. Choice is yours if you wish to get up and walk and dance or stay there face down feeling miserable till your time comes. Wonderful things have wonderful times. Grab them. Don’t lose them. There is more to it than it seems.
Cheers to you, cheers to lyf…!
