Thursday 25 November 2010

lessons and credits...

A person, a thing, surroundings, everything around us forms us. At least 1 thing in our life has such a great impact on us that we change. It can also mean a complete 180° turn. Our life can be upside down just because of someone or something. It can be anyone; say our parents, friends, an acquaintance or even a passer by. That situation slaps us so hard that it shudders everything, from our concepts to our mindset, everything!

We wonder what made us think the way we were thinking till then. We learn these lessons all our lives and even though we forgive we don’t forget. And why should we? There’s no use if we forget the reason for our change! That reason is the base for everything. It keeps us going. But the most important thing is that we should know is where to sulk and where to move on. Life doesn’t wait for anyone. We have to keep us going and achieve what we were meant to. Life gives us these lessons all our life. But we should face it with a smile. Remember even death doesn’t come to your way easily if you are not scared of it.

Talking about people and lessons, have you ever thought of giving someone their credits? Like if you like something or have a something in life because of someone, have you ever gone to the person and said simple thanks? Or if you think you did something wrong with someone or with something, have you ever been to d person n said sorry or apologized any how any way? If you participated in something and couldn’t win did you ever go to the winner and say congratulations or at least accepted that you did not deserve enough or have you always made excuses about your failure?
Think about this.

Put up what you feel about this below. I am waiting for inputs from your side. Common people lets see what you guys have to say on this.
Cheers to you, cheers to lyf…

4 comments:

  1. I think u cud hav done a much betta endin..bt its reali gud 3.6 outta 5 i rate dis...wil surely make othr ppl compel to think n annalys.. jst try to put more soul..:) ;)

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  2. i am asking you guys to give in inputs about the topic! that is what going to complete it!

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  3. First of all the reason of our change can be a person or a incident.. And i would definitely not change myself for anyone.. Of course you will bend to some extent & try to adjust, but finally the threshold will come..And ppl don't change, what change is their priorities..!

    And regarding your credits, thanks, apology & congrats thing, whats the meaning of that?? Who cares..!? We are living in a selfish world, where ppl forget the good deeds easily that you have done for them.. The more you tried to be nice the more ppl will make you suffer..In fact i have realized this- Rudeness is Awesome..:)

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  4. @pratik- 1stly thnx 4 ur input. d 1st part u said i agree 2 it..but about d second part...u upset me dude.
    expectations is what makes us low. i know and agree that its a selfish world but then its us who have to change it. if good deeds are not apprecieted then what do you think people will work for? what i meant from the 2nd part is that we all are just becoming thankless and ungratefull. its a give and take business after all. as you sow so shall you reap. so be nice to people and if nothing you just have the feeling that you have done what you had to...don't bother about what people dont do. just keep up the good work..this will atleast keep the human race human or the day isnt far that every other person is looking out 2 kill everyone..

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